Posted by:
Agnes Broomhead
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Date: April 22, 2015 11:34AM
COULDN'T DISAGREE MORE!!!
Everyone in most societies, including others, gather within the same age group. One reason most people don't go to church is that it's for old people. Especially if they're from a mainline denomination.
The only church I attended regularly was a mainline denomination church in a college town. That church had probably one older couple, the rest were college students, in a town known for its alcohol-fueled riots. In face shortly after I visited a church in another college town with "University" in its name, but found out it was all older people, and gave up.
Like it or not LDS Inc. is probably the only Christ-connected church with a purpose for getting young singles together. Are they that awful for merely suggesting marriage is a sacrament. Yes, they screw it up with their cult habits, their greed, and their doctrinal oddities, all of that. But why isn't there ANY other respected church, with no cult tendencies, with full-fledged singles ministries dedicated to getting people together.
Presbyterians? Nope.
Lutherans? Uh uh.
Catholic dioceses? Forget it.
Methodists? Are you kidding?
Megachurches tend to attract people of all ages, yet there doesn't seem to be any that is truly identical to the Singles Ward approach. I can't see why they can't do so, if they believe marriage is a sacrament. It's these unique things that cause people to investigate the LDS cult. The respected churches sit on their hands and knees and do nothing!
> "I could have went to the local bar and found better husband material."
Yeah, and he's likely to be an alcoholic, abusive, an obnoxious jerk, ugly, or all of that. Understand where I come from the only place to meet single people is in bars, and you have to drink alcohol to be accepted. Those simply looking for a moral-minded partner might join a crazy fundamentalist sect (and I despise Bible-kissers) or register online for one of those dating sites which nobody uses because everyone thinks everyone registered there is a creep or pedophile, without ever meeting them to make sure. By the same token we can't even say "hi" to strangers nowadays, they might think we're up to something and call the cops!
Yes LD$ is an obnoxious cult but they have almost all the other churches beat when it comes to things most people are deep-down looking for. Are they that bad for insisting its members don't smoke or drink? I understand most newer self-proclaimed "non-denominational" churches, including the megachurches, have few I any members who smoke or drink. That's why lots of young families join them. So what about those who want families but don't have them yet?
Pardon but it really burns my ass when people suggest bars are the place to meet people. You don't understand how drunk driving has become such an epidemic in our land. Where I am, every one it seems drinks and participated in the "party culture" when they were in college, and all of them talk loudly, some of them swearing casually, dressed sloppy, with poor attitudes (usually complaining about this or that) and most of all, very judgmental. The only ones who aren't are LD$ members, and the small numbers of those who attended born-again churches that advocate things like killing abortion doctors and demanding Obama be impeached. I'm absolutely serious.
Besides the cult tendencies, having separate YSA and 30+ groups does not make sense. But what's wrong with attending a church with someone near your age with the same goals and aspirations if that makes you more comfortable?