Posted by:
blingwad
(
)
Date: May 16, 2015 07:20PM
I am not a Mormon. I'm a believing but largely lapsed Catholic. However, a good friend of mine converted in her 20s, when the missionaries were still in the former Soviet Union. She has been questioning for a long time, less the religious aspects (which she knows I think are whack) but primarily because of the controlling, toxic culture of intimidation.
She has made the decision to leave, and I want to support her. I see the LDS church as the abusive spouse (there is some irony there actually) that people return to time and again because the spouse isolated them so much that they don't feel like they have resources.
My friend is smart and well educated and she wants the best for her children. She however has a tween who is pretty deep into things and I think the main reason she has waited until now was her child.
So how do I help her? What do I do? Take her to a liturgical Christian church (Orthodox, Catholic, Episcopal, Lutheran?) how can I help?