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Date: April 05, 2020 03:41AM
The religious life was never about unconditional love it was about who had "the right" to do whatever they wanted to do relative to others.
When someone had a good time in the middle of innocent plenty it was "pride", but when some "hot shot"/manipulative EGO just did what he wanted to it was seen as completely lawful and OK because somewhere someone of dignity had said it was OK.
After reading Strickers book I personally must say that in my community most of the people who turned to religion did it to hear someone finally say that they were lovable, "normal" and "Ok".
We all looked for the wrong solution to our problems. It was just more of the same that had put us down in our community outside the Church.
So it was never about love it was about the value of pride and envy and who had the right to feel good, normal and OK. Same thing different name. Waste of time. The only real winning was to find the exit door and Marion Strickers book putting words on the paradoxes.