This is going to ruffle some mormon feathers!!

It's an article, about sex, posted on another site. The other site is polite and very domestic. I predict completely different responses, both in tone and content.

Here's a mild quote, which provides the context for not adding O/T to the subject line:

"I've been a sex columnist, which suggests Sexual Libertine, but in many ways I'm repressed. I was raised Mormon, so my psychological, sexual landscape has definitely been impacted by the sexual repression in that culture leaving me to to frequent battle with the Morality Police, priggish Jacques and Ferrar, that live inside my head.

My therapist, who is often a place of temperate permission, explained that she believes, and I quote:

"The ravishment fantasy is most likely the rule for women, rather than the exception."


You have to read a bit more of the article in order to get your hackles to rise. Some of you may wish you hadn't...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/shannon-colleary/what-women-really-want-in-bed_b_7302610.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/19/2015 10:28PM by elderolddog.

How about talking about consent, boundaries, and having a safe word before engaging in these acts?

I have no problem with people engaging in various control fantasies, I have a serious problem with promoting these acts without discussion first.

It's irresponsible to suggest that most people want to engage in these acts. ALWAYS talk to your partner first, especially before performing "breath play."

but I have had a grab me, hold me, make mad passionate love to me with my consent fantasy.

Six inch f**k me pumps don't always work on Mormon guys.

Big surprise here, right? Go figure that females who are raised with a submissive mindset fantasize about less-fettered sexual encounters, while still avoiding responsibility for the "driving."

Ladies, if you want it, show it. Take the wheel. He'll let you know if he wants a safe word, but many will be happy to hand you the keys, share the map.

Ennui is self-imposed.

My husband and I rarely "make love". We normally are into it being a little rough and tumble, but I am definitely against choking or hair pulling.

ziller: "Hey baby. Let's play 'rape'."

ziller's trophy wife: "No. Absolutely not!"

ziller: "That's the spirit baby!"