Posted by:
schlock
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Date: June 24, 2015 07:31PM
I've played both of the aforementioned dysfunctional roles in my life.
The older I get, the less comfortable I am in either role.
Healthy, symbiotic, empathetic, respectful roles are the ones I try to emulate.
Yes, I feel sorry for the children / teenagers / young adults who are given unhealthy role models. But like Mr. Burr stated in a previous thread, at some point in one's life, if you really want to be happy and emotionally centered, you need to shed the demons of your mind, grow up, and become a whole human. At some point in one's life, excusing poor behavior on other's poor behavior becomes a tinny and silly excuse.
55 year old women, who talk in baby voices, and kick their children out of their lives because of who their children love, and passively-aggressively interact with everyone, and have no idea how to have an orgasm, and cannot balance a checkbook? No, I don't feel sorry for them. They do make me queasy when I get too close though.
55 year old men, who believe latinos and women and blacks and children and non-mormons are beneath them, who decry teenage masturbation, while having an affair with the RS president, who get what they want at work and home and church by bullying, who believe this world is here to cater to their needs and wants, whose wives haven't had an orgasm in 35 years, who have no ability to empathize with those less fortunate, who believe their penis is made of gold, who think nothing of the footprint that their 8 children add to an already overpopulated world, who have a superficial, almost non-existent relationship with those children. No, I don't feel sorry for them. They do make me agitated when I get close though.
For most dyed-in-the-wool TBMs, the escher puzzle that they live in is of their own construction. All they need to do is "step off".
But, of course, most never will.
http://www.mcescher.com/gallery/recognition-success/waterfall/Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 06/24/2015 07:34PM by schlock.