Posted by:
hellohibye
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Date: June 27, 2015 10:35PM
Hello friends! I hope I am welcome here as I am still a Mormon. I've been debating about leaving the church for a long time. I only debate because it's going to DESTROY my parents. I haven't been to church in many years and have NO interest in anything to do with the Mormon church. But I wonder if it's worth it to put my parents through that pain? I know it's about me, not them, but it's still hard. Every time I move to a new location they are always going behind my back & calling my bishop to try to get some visiting teachers/missionaries/etc to come visit me. I apologize in advance I'm going to ramble a bit.
I am the youngest of 8 kids. Everyone in my family is very active in the church except for me. We're all really close, and as far as I can tell, no one really cares that I have no interest. They treat me the same as always.
My dad was a bishop and stake president for most of my life. He has always been a GREAT man. Very humble, funny, helpful, selfless, etc.
My 20 year old niece is gay. I've known for years but I guess a lot of my family just found out this month. My parents had planned to let her live with them indefinitely to help her get on her feet. She's addicted to drugs, has been to jail, gets in fights, yadda yadda. As soon as my dad found out she's gay, he took back his offer and said he will not support her 'appalling lifestyle". She said "Well I'm also addicted to drugs that could easily kill me. Does that bother you? And he said "That's not my concern."
I think this is what put me over the edge. Mormons believe that people are BORN gay but they shouldn't be able to be with people of the same sex. It drives me NUTS. How does that make any sense?
As far as I'm concerned, God is against people who HATE, people who ALIENATE, and people who JUDGE. He would never make someone be gay and then forbid them to act on it!! So silly to me, I can't even stand it.
Anyway that's all I got. What do you think?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/27/2015 10:35PM by hellohibye.