Posted by:
schrodingerscat
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Date: April 22, 2021 09:34PM
His story is about as heartbreaking as any story.
I don't hate, but I really despise the abusive CULT we were born into, because of what they did to people like him, and Grant Palmer, who were two of the most honest Mormons I ever knew. And the abusive CULT ruined these guys lives, Michael more than Grant, but both of them were excommunicated/Disfellowshipped. I knew Grant personally and had a great correspondence with him and personal face to face conversations. One last conversation I had with him I asked him, if he'd still draw the same conclusions now, that the church has disciplined you, that you drew in the end of "Insider's View of Mormonism" that the church is still true, they just need to focus on Jesus more and Joseph less.
He said he would.
He was deeply hurt by the way he was mistreated by this abusive CULT. The church 'discipliined' both of them, expelled both of them, made them pariah's in their own communities. Grant, went on believing, in Jesus, not Joseph. He really believed he could change the church and make them focus more on Jesus and less on Joseph Smith.
I guess in some regards, they did, from what I hear, since the Polygamy papers came out, the church leaders barely mention Joseph Smith.
But Mormons still sing his praises, knowing he had 'married' (raped) his follower's wives.
I say, "Married" because there is no legal way for a man to 'marry' a women who is already married and never was a law written that would allow that, because it'd make the God who gave us the 10 Commandments, a GD liar.
Even more damningly, it would also make the God of Mormonism a GD liar.
So how can you say the church is still good, if they still teach children to sing the praises of a liar, child rapist/cuckold bull?
He just looked at me with this really sad, tired look and said, "I'm old. I'm too tired to fight. It's your turn." pointing to all of us in the room full of ExMormons.
Those were his last words to me.
And here they are, still ruining people's lives, every GD day.
Still causing people to commit suicide, far more than anywhere else in the country, especially amongst LGBTQ people, still maintaining racist, homophobic, sexist beliefs, despite the evidence to the contrary.
But what both Grant and Michael Quinn died with was their integrity. It may have ruined Michael's life, but he loved it still. Kind of like an abused person in an abusive relationship, overlooks their abuse, because they 'love' their abuser, and the cycle continues, endlessly, from one generation down to the next.
“One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.”
― Carl Sagan, The Demon-Haunted World: Science as a Candle in the Dark
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/22/2021 09:46PM by schrodingerscat.