Posted by:
cakeordeath
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Date: July 07, 2015 09:52PM
My family is part Mormon (90%) and part sinner/freethinker (10%). As you may well deduce, I'm in the ten percent. My lovely aunt and her new husband of one year threw a party for the whole family on the 4th of July. She and he are wonderful hosts and do a lot to accommodate the 90 percent. Meanwhile, the 10 percent do their best to 'accommodate' the 90 percent (i.e., no alcohol, tea, or tobacco; hot drinks in July?) So, what ends up happening is the 10 percent are the 'unfriendlies' who try to accommodate the 'friendlies' who are the 90 percent. It only works one way here.
So, what ends up happening is the 'unfriendlies' pack together and plot a future time to have a meeting without the 'friendlies' so that a good time can be had by all (read: alcohol, music, dancing, loud laughter, speaking ill of Mormon leaders and god's appointed whatevers. And in the thick of things, no one ever notices this:
The ones who paid for the whole party, my dear aunt and her nevermo husband, are treated like shit for not going to church and being married in the temple. They are berated for having time to travel and do things instead of serving a mission. Meanwhile, most of the 90 percent are receiving help from either government or church financial entities. I'll never understand how a person can be on the dole and still be unsatisfied with the people who are footing the bill.
On a more personal detail, I've told several of my cousins over the years that I am not a Mormon anymore and I don't care to hear about their religion at gatherings. "Did you hear that BKP died this past week?". "Yes, why yes I did. Would you like me to tell you the context of how I heard it? I found out about it on exmormon.org to the glee of many people." That got rid of cousin #1.
"Did you hear that BKP died this past week?", asked my niece. "Yes, yes I did. I'm so sorry for your loss." "You know, this would be a good time to go back to church Uncle Cake. The lord is needing old men to lead his church today." "You know, honey-kitten, you might be right. Can you imagine me leading a sacrament meeting with my years of being out of the church?"
See left skid marks in the grass next to the horseshoe pits with the garbage cans filled with empty beer cans from the party the night before.
Cake
"Now the sermon today is taken from a magazine I found in a hedge. Now, uh, lipstick colours this season are, uh, mainly in the frosted pink area and, uh, nail colours to match, uh this reminds me rather of our Lord Jesus. Because, Surely, when Jesus went into Nazareth on a donkey, he must've gotten tarted up a bit."