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Date: July 21, 2015 10:20AM
In the East, it's very popular to be married by a good friend or loved one. I don't know where you are located, but people here become Universal Life Ministers through this organization.
http://www.themonastery.org/landing/get-ordained?gclid=CKbytqK07MYCFZFgfgodUy4FdQIf it works in your state, it seems to me it would be lovely if you performed the ceremony for your sister!
No silly rules -- she can do it her way. Plus, no talk of how it will be great when it's done in the temple for eternity, blah, blah, blah.
Additionally, in the Jewish faith, both parents walk both the bride and the groom down the aisle and to the chuppa. That has always struck me as a very nice way to honor the parents of both the bride and groom.
Dh and I were married by the bishop of my ward. He was a very kind and caring person as well as a singer in the Tab Choir and an occasional community theater actor. He did a lovely ceremony for us with nothing demeaning whatsoever in it. But, if I had it to do over, I would not be married by a bishop.