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NeverMo in CA
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Date: July 31, 2015 01:59PM
Ok, even after my years of lurking on RfM, this was a surprise even to me. (Then again, I have not read here much for the last several months, so maybe I've missed this topic....)
My very nice LDS neighbor served a mission in Hawai'i (Maui). She brought that up yesterday when were discussing summer vacations, and we both mentioned that we hadn't been to Hawai'i in years and would love to go back. I said, "Well, at least you were there for two years! You must have done some incredible sight-seeing, tons of swimming."
She replied that her missionary service was great but that she couldn't swim because "Actually, we weren't allowed to swim on our mission."
I immediately thought, okay, must be an LDS "modesty" issue, at least for female mishies, so I said, "Oh...I guess they didn't want female missionaries wearing bathing suits?"
"No, it's not a modesty thing. No missionaries are allowed to swim, on any mission."
"So, I guess it's a safety thing? Insurance or something? Could you swim in a pool but just not in the ocean?"
"No, no swimming at all."
At this point, my mouth was gaping open. I asked, "So, could you at least wade or something? Go in the water but not swim?"
"No, we couldn't go in it at all." She added that once when some other mishies baptized someone in the ocean (so that's the lone exception, I guess, to the "no water" policy), she stayed "far up" on the shore so that she wouldn't be "tempted" by the water.
Even she--and my neighbor is pretty hard-core TBM--said, "It always seemed silly to me that you could be in water for baptisms despite the rule about avoiding water!"
I asked her how she could possibly stand being in Hawai'i for two years and not even put her feet in that gorgeous warm water. (We live in Northern California, so believe me, warm ocean water is only a dream.) She replied that she would just remind herself, "That's not why I'm here." I then asked, again, why they aren't allowed in the water.
She said something like, "Well, in the old days some people said...well, it doesn't really matter. We aren't supposed to go in a small boat, either, so I guess, yeah, it's just for safety reasons."
Okay...I let it drop. But I have read so many stories on RfM about missionaries being sent into dangerous neighborhoods, being denied basic medical care for life-threatening illnesses, riding bikes in places with terrible traffic...yet it's too dangerous to go in the water? To WADE in the water? What the...?
And seriously, those poor missionaries. It must be a special kind of hell to be sent to a place like Hawai'i and not be allowed anywhere near a pool or the ocean!