Posted by:
dydimus
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Date: August 08, 2015 07:14PM
Just to be psychologically pessimistic with an optimistic outlook.
My generation, we were looking for soulmates. Look at the talks, movies (e.g.Butcher's Wife) Richard Bach books about finding his "soul mate" etc...
Then we start learning about "love brain chemistry" and even GBH said that "soul mates" is a false fairytale
http://ldsquotes.com/lds-quotes-by-author/spencer-w-kimball-quotes/soul-mates-are-fiction-and-an-illusion/. Now the next generation is finding that maybe best friends is a better way! There's new T.V. shows like "Married at first sight"
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/08/married-at-first-sight_n_5568131.html or hearing stories of successful arranged marriages or how elderly people (well past their sexual peaks) find "love" and companionship.
So as the new commercial says. "First there's like, then there's Love"
I know I wish I would of married a friend instead of for passion.