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Date: September 04, 2015 09:38AM
tevai Wrote:
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> I really would like critiques of this, my own best
> understanding, so I can overcome my own
> misapprehensions and blind spots, which are
> probably plentiful. ;)
I think you nailed it, tevai. And the science of gender backs you up:
"Neuroscience of sex differences is the study of the characteristics of the brain that separate the male brain from the female brain. Unlike sexual characteristics, which are the physical qualities that separate the two sexes of an organism, the neurological differences are not visually apparent and therefore hard to study. Psychological sex differences are thought by some to reflect the interaction of genes, hormones and social learning on brain development throughout the lifespan. Some evidence from brain morphology and function studies indicates that male and female brains cannot always be assumed to be identical from either a structural or functional perspective, and some brain structures are sexually dimorphic."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroscience_of_sex_differencesSomething to consider for the OP regarding pronouns:
Some of your difficulty (and it's not just you, so don't feel bad in this regard, you're showing flexibility and a desire to learn) comes from your primary language. In English we have specific male and female pronouns, that are "culturally" bound to specific cases, and our language lacks an idea of a third (or fourth or fifth) gender, or ambiguous gender, etc. That's also the case for most of the "Romantic" languages.
But not all. Tagalog (Filipino), for example, doesn't have gender-based pronouns. "He" is the same as "she" -- siya. They don't have to grow up learning to assign a pronoun to gender and worry about the definitions -- they use the same word for males, females, and anyone in between or ambiguous. My Filipina wife, who speaks outstanding English and has been in the US for almost 30 years, still occasionally uses the incorrect English pronoun -- so ingrained was her non-gender pronoun use growing up (she'll occasionally say "he" for a woman or "she" for a male).
It's interesting that in the Philippines, despite the strong religious social context (around 92% Catholic and 97% christian), transgender individuals have a LONG history of at least tolerance, and even outright acceptance. Transgender people are practically fixtures in their TV shows and plays, for example -- and the "bathroom issues" we more gender-focused people have are practically non-existent. I wonder sometimes if the language differences, which in their case don't include gender-specific pronouns, have something to do with that acceptance...