Posted by:
sonofabish
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Date: September 08, 2015 11:56AM
The other night I was having a hard time getting to sleep, I kept thinking about some of the things that I have learned about recently. Things that I had always thought were anti mormon lies. I had heard a good deal of things on my mission, but never gave them much weight until the essays started coming out and started looking into myself. My wife couldnt sleep either so I told her that these things were on my mind, specifically JS and his wives. I told her about the essays, she had never heard of them and questioned that I had read this on lds.org. I told her that I had and read them there and then she asked me to show her. I pulled up the essay about polygamy and she read it all. When she was done, I think she was surprised but was very optimistic about it. Polygamy has been something that has always bothered her, but she tried to justify the essay as best as she could. She told me that she didnt understand how it all worked but that it would be sorted out in the afterlife. I told her that JS taking married men's wives was disturbing to me and that the fact that he married a 14 year old didnt sit well with me. She said that marrying that young was something that you did back then and I retorted that 14 year olds didnt marry 38 year old men to which she didnt respond. I explained that JS taking the wives of married men was like saying, you go ahead and take care of her in this life but she is all mine in the afterlife. She said that she understood why it would be hard for me to accept these things and that it really came down to having faith in Jesus.
I told her about the other essays and that on my mission I had told people that these things werent true and here we are 10 years later and now the church is now acknowledging them. I told her that I feel the church has been hiding things and what else will they come out with that I had thought been an "anti mormon lie". She said that she would consider reading the other essays, but at this point she hasnt as far as I know.
On Sunday though, she decided to stay home with me. I asked her if she intended to go to church and she said she wanted to spend the day with me, so maybe there is something there. I feel better about it though now that she knows they are there though. I dont know if her shelf will ever break or if she will always believe, I dont care either way, but at least she knows the information is there now.