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Date: September 27, 2015 02:53PM
A couple of days ago, I posted about how my MIL and SIL have both been inviting us to church activities so we will "feel the spirit" and return to activity. I got out of going to Women's Conference because my daughter had two different prior activities scheduled Saturday night that she needed rides to. While I realize I probably should have just said "No thank you - I'm not interested in attending Women's Conference," I chickened out.
To no avail because apparently my MIL told my husband she knew very well that DD and I had been attending another church and that was why I didn't want to go to WC with her. But she wasn't going to let that stop her from inviting us to other church things. We've been out of the Mormon church almost 8 years and attending this other, non-denominational church for about 2 1/2 and in all this time, MIL has never brought up the subject with us. It's so aggravating that Mormons won't even acknowledge you left the church or ask why, but feel OK shoving Mormonism down your throat. And it all goes on behind your back.
The good news is MIL and I have always had a pleasant, but not close relationship and she lives 1/2 an hour away. I don't think this will be much of a problem. DH doesn't have a good relationship with his mom and any stunt she pulls to reactivate our family will just push him further away from the church. I'm just sharing this story to show how pervasive bad Mormon behavior is and if you are going through something with your Mormons, their insensitivity and bad sense of boundaries, you aren't alone. It's everywhere. There is no spirit to feel so they are wasting their time and really, if they can't play nicely with other kids, it's OK to not let it bother you. It's their choice to act the way they do. Thankfully, most exmos can see it for what it is.