I've come so far, far enough that my gay ex lives in this house with me. I'm still friends with those mormons who meant the most to me. I'm in a relationship with the guy I should have married at 20 (not mormon) for 11 years now. My parents accepted and listened to me before they died, because they saw what I went through. I'm finally on good terms with my sisters again.
I will always have issues with the lds church. I will always carry baggage, but I have been successful and found happiness outside the lds church more than I ever did as LDS.