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presleynfactsrock
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Date: October 22, 2015 12:09PM
Thanks for your responses......interesting and informative. I feel I have more of an understanding of the atmosphere for mishies which will help me (hopefully) to relate better with my indoctrinated granddaughter. It really did pain me to read her homesick letter at this half-way mark. She was never this homesick even when she was out as a new missionary.
As par for the course, the church/cult is missing the mark in preparing and teaching the youth they are indoctrinating to go on missions. (pure child abuse, in my opinion, that they indoctrinate them to go at this age). The cult could be teaching those kids BEFORE HAND not only all about the culture where they will be serving, but about human relationships and skills aimed at getting along. So often these are not learned in Mormon homes where the emphasis that if you are learning about the church, everything else will magically fall in line and appear at your doorstop.
I'm reminded of the great essay, "All I Ever Really Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten" by Rober Fulghum. Hells bells, even if the church taught them this and followed the wisdom in this essay, what an improvement there would be for the lives of those young people! Here is the essay:
ALL I EVER REALLY NEEDED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN
By Robert Fulghum
Most of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sandbox at nursery school.
These are the things I learned: Share everything. Play fair. Don't hit people. Put things back where you found them. Clean up your own mess. Don't take things that aren't yours. Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody. Wash your hands before you eat. Flush. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. Live a balanced life. Learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
Take a nap every afternoon. When you go out into the world, watch for traffic, hold hands and stick together. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the plastic cup. The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the plastic cup - they all die. So do we.
And then remember the book about Dick and Jane and the first word you learned, the biggest word of all LOOK. Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation, ecology and politics and sane living.
Think of what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk about 3 o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with blankets for a nap. Or if we had a basic policy in our nation and other nations to always put things back where we found them and cleaned up our own messes. And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.
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Instead, the church/cult does not, nor will it, follow this common sense wisdom in this essay dealing with the young missionaries. Instead, they tell them to hide their heads in the sand, to not even read or find out the daily news. A balanced life is not recommended in the least----rather those kids are abused into working long, long hours Critical thinking is not advocated in the least, just follow the leaders who, they say, will not lead you down the wrong path.