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summer
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Date: November 01, 2015 08:41AM
Welcome to the board! I am so sorry that you got sucked into Mormonism. The missionaries are trained to take advantage of those who are lonely, at loose ends, or who just can't say no. I agree with Amyjo that you will need to learn how to be more assertive. Just keep remembering that in terms of personal choices, the only opinion that matters is yours.
Email your resignation. Give your last address on your previous campus. Let the Member Records department sort it out.
Complete directions for how to do so can be found here:
http://www.exmormon.org/remove.htmAfter you have emailed your resignation, PM the missionaries and your Mormon friends and acquaintances. Tell them that you made a mistake, that the church is not a good fit for you, you have sent in your resignation, which is final, and you wish them well. If they ask follow-up questions, just say that it is a personal decision, and you know they will respect your agency ("agency" is Mormon-speak for the right to make your own decisions.) Do not give reasons apart than that. It is not their business why you wish to leave the Mormon church. If they continue to pester you, unfriend them or unfollow them. But just a heads-up, it is unlikely that any will choose to continue their friendship with you. Mormons often fear and shun those who leave the church. It's not you, it's them.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/01/2015 08:44AM by summer.