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BYU Boner
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Date: November 15, 2015 03:30PM
I had been a convert to the Morg for one year when I transferred to BYU. Initially, everything was peachy. I had friends, everyone was trying to live standards, and I thought I had made life-long friends. During some of the mandated religion classes, I started hearing about some bizarre teachings of the church, but put it on my shelf as the church is true so don't worry about things. I did get a little bit uncomfortable in my Pearl of Great Price class, though.
After my junior year at the Y I felt a call to go on a mission. There was only one problem, my nevermo parents hate Mormonism. When I got the nerve to tell them I wanted to go, they went into a cold-calculated rage. Briefly, they would disown me and see to it that my student loans would default.
Although I was obvious to me that I couldn't go under these circumstances, Spencer Kimball had just given a talk where he stated that every worthy male needed to go on a mission.
My former friends were not as friendly and I began to fall into a deep depression. Well, nothing better to get feeling better than to start spanking the monkey in earnest. Of course, that made me feel even more depressed an unworthy to be a member of the church.
Eventually, one of the BYU stake presidents found out about my nasty little habit and made me check in with him once a week so that I could look into his eyes. He told me all he had to do was look at me and he'd know if I was pure or impure. How fucked up is that? Well, I did what any guy would do, I changed apartments to get out of the BYU stake I was living in.
Eventually, I graduated and started working in Salt Lake. I stopped attending church but still tried to live the WoW, law a chastity, etc. I co-worker who was a woman convert like myself (inactive but still believer) suggested we attend a singles' ward. We did and I make new friends and even got called to the bishopric. Of course, the bishop wanted me to go to the temple. One problem, I still jacked off every chance I got. So, I actually went a couple of months so I could get my recommend without lying.
The temple was bizarre. This was in the old days of slitting the throats, disemboweling oneself, etc. I was bothered by it but figured the church was still true. It was about this time when my wife came into the picture. We were married in the temple.
With a couple of months, Mark Hofmann's forgeries and his bombings were making news. I started wondering why so-called prophets, seers, and revelators couldn't see through all the fucking deception. I was taken aback when Dallin Oaks said that the church was a victim (even at that time I saw through his lawyer bullshit).
Shortly after, I went to the temple with my wife one last time. I sat next to a young man getting his endowments for the first time. He was scared shitless. I tried to reassure him everything was okay and even walked up to the veil with him. When he was in the celestial room all his family were hugging and congratulating him. That did it. My self collapsed and I saw the Morg for the fucking cult it was.
I told my wife I didn't believe in it anymore. She said the marriage was over. We've been married for over 32 years, but Mormonism has hurt me and my relationship with my wife irrevocably.
Sorry for the long answer, when my shelf collapsed in the temple, I stopped believing. It didn't take more than a couple of months to get released from classing and stop home teaching. I wore the fucking garments for a decade to please my wife. Finally, we separated due to the fact that I wouldn't wear them anymore.
When we got back together, I told her she would have to accept me as a non-member. We had young children and she really didn't want to do it alone.
I formally resigned last Spring. My wife told all the now adult kids who basically shrugged it off as, well Dad never was a believer.
Ironically, I have more Mormon friends since I became true to myself. I even invite them to share their testimonies. I listen because I once know I was in their shoes. I also know that my parents unintentionally pushed me deeper into the cult because they pushed so hard on me. The Boner.