Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: December 10, 2015 07:45AM
My oldest TBM brother asked this of one of my younger exmo brothers at the funeral of our wonderful newly dead youngest sister.
TBMs seem to think no one has a brain to interpret facts on their own. They always look for an "example" or an "influence."
Over his lifetime, this TBM brother has insulted and discounted every one of the four younger exmo siblings at every turn. I am the most outspoken when he does this to me, so he assumes I've tainted the thinking of everyone else.
He came to the funeral after never showing a sliver of interest in our dear sister while she was alive. He expected to show up and have free food and lodging at my dead sister's home and to have her grieving husband entertain him with free tourist excursions during his funeral trip.
Why? Because families are forever and he is family. Also, since he's never traveled to the area, he expected to utilize the stay as a tourist extravaganza at my BIL's expense.
He spoke at the funeral and mentioned our dead sister only once in passing. His whole talk was hinting how he needed money and expected the family to honor him as their patriarch and return to Mormonism for the pleasure of seeing him in the afterlife. What an oaf.
I hope to never see him or any other TBM relative again.
Did I poison my sibs against the morg? No, I'd say the TBMs in the family did that without my help.