Posted by:
jdoubledub
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Date: March 02, 2016 05:31PM
So, if you're coming to this post for something really juicy, I apologize. Not that good, just seeking some advice. I recently told my wife about my beliefs a few months back. I wrote a post on how she responded; in short, not good. She is a fanatic about it and has started doing this: she now practices the good old Mormon doctrine of inoculation.
To what, you may ask?
To me. Their father. We are still together (barely), but she is now telling the kids that whatever she says is truth and they need to know that. She is telling them that, if anybody else tells them anything contrary to the teachings of TSCC, they are lying to them and deceiving them. Even if it's somebody close to them, i.e. me. She's inoculating them to what I may say to them in the future and basically setting me up to become a liar and deceiver to my own kids. Fortunately, I have been able to talk to them and set the record straight. I don't want them believing anything close to those thoughts ever. It's not fair because then they will think anybody outside the church is a liar and deceiver too. I have this suspicion that the Bishop in my wife's ward is telling her to do these things; or her parents. They are too stupid to see that this can and will have lasting effects on my kids.
Another episode in the life of somebody that grows to dislike the church immensely more and more every day.
I am afraid that this inoculation will know no bounds if we get divorced; but the pain from this marriage is spilling over onto the kids.