Posted by:
kjensen
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Date: March 09, 2016 11:11AM
I am an amateur actor (emphasis on amateur) and recently after a performance, as is customary in this theater, the actors go to the front door to await the audience as they leave the theater. In the audience was a person with whom I had served in the bishopric and he approached me and without warning gave me a big hug. It caught me by surprise, as this man and I were never close, and since leaving the church, I have had little contact with him. The vibe I got from the hug was not one of congratulations on a good performance(he said nothing), but it seemed to be one of pity or something wierd. To say the least, I was a little offended. I felt that this man was hugging me, because that would fix everything as if that all I was lacking was a hug from him so that I would go back to church. It seemed to shallow and artificial, meant for public viewing, as this man has never come to my door to ask why I left the church or to inquire as a friend as to my true feelings. However, what I learned in leaving the church, is that there are no true friendships with Mormons only church acquaintances. This incident only confirmed that observation. Yuck!