Posted by:
Elder Berry
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Date: March 28, 2016 01:34PM
We were invited to spend Easter with friends. One of their fathers is a Stake President. He was talking about the church today and here are his high points. He references discussing these things and getting several of these insights from a member of the 1st Q of the 70.
He hears many, many people telling him that Mormonism is losing relevance with people.
The IRS has hundreds of pages of rules. LDS Inc. has a handbook and the scriptures which is much less. It should suffice for people to be able to follow them much easier.
He believes now is like the time in 4th Nephi where the generations of members are losing their testimonies through not transferring them parent to child. People just expect their children to gain them without their involvement.
We have good kids and exceptional youth, we just have poor role modeling.
The Law of Thirds is burning out members. 1/3 do all the work, 1/3 irregularly attend church, and 1/3 don't.
I gathered he was feeling a little concerned with leaders giving work to people who won't say no but should and when giving it to other people they have a million excuses not to including that they had already done that and wanted to try something new. He didn't like this response.
It was a weird and refreshing conversation. It was like talking to the leader of a club. No spiritual talk and all temporal talk. I thought this is a religion? But I appreciated the insights into a job that I've never really understood.
My big take away was that people seem more and more uncomfortable with their church but all the leadership is unanimous in their primary message - stay the course indefinitely. We need nothing new and no changes. We need you to get the vision of what we have.