Posted by:
TheBishop'sDaughter
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Date: March 29, 2016 01:06PM
For the last year during my exit, I was bombarded by my bishop and lots of members from the ward. The Bishop would call every other month (sometimes more often) and say in his messages "just checking in!" WTF? Does he think he is my dad or something? I never answer my phone when he calls, and yet he just keeps on calling. So I finally told him to put us on the do-not-contact list, after I already told him for months I needed space and please leave us alone...then he tried using the old "you're breaking my heart" bull on me. Why the hell do members think they can just push their way into other families lives? So many TBM are manipulative and only have "in-actives" as a project in mind, not being your true friend. I had to tell the sister missionaries off months ago because they were showing up unannounced at my door 2-3 times A WEEK. I had a baby last year, and didn't tell the RS pres what day or hospital I was delivering at (I hadn't seen her in months)...She works at the same hospital but in a completely different wing. My husband and I had the hospital put us as private so no one could just show up. Guess who looked up our info in the system? The relief society pres showed up KNOCKING on my hospital room door while I was in the shower. My nurse answered and asked how she knew we were there, then she sent her away and wouldn't let her in thank god. NO RESPECT for personal boundaries!!!! The manager of the delivery wing came in and talked to us and said they would take care of the problem of her violating the system and our privacy. I am seriously DONE with anyone I know from church. They've all been so pushy, rude and manipulative. I have blocked all of their numbers in my phone because I just don't want to even know that they are still trying. I am trying to decide on removing my name from the church, and so is my DH. I am SO glad my kids are too young to know anything about TSCC so I don't have to un-brainwash them.