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Date: May 01, 2016 12:28AM
peculiargifts Wrote:
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> But be aware that (if they live in Utah, or, I
> have read, if the mother even goes to Utah
> temporarily to have the baby) it seems that the
> father can lose his rights if he doesn't prove
> paternity and assert his paternal rights before
> the child is given up for adoption. So he needs to
> get DNA proof as soon as possible if he/his family
> want to have any input in the situation.
>
> I read this on the internet, in a board run by
> BYU, so it may not be accurate, but it also said
> that after the baby is born, the mother (or
> parents, if the father has proven paternity and
> asserted his paternal rights), even if either or
> both are minors, have the legal right to make all
> decisions regarding the baby. A minor daughter in
> Utah still can be controlled by her parents (she
> is not emancipated by giving birth in Utah), but
> her parents do not have the legal right to make
> decisions for or about their daughter's baby,
> except under exceptional circumstances (like the
> grandparents have successfully sued for custody of
> the baby).
>
> Here is a link to the primary discussion:
>
>
https://theboard.byu.edu/questions/67857/From what I've read, it isn't so much that a father legally must assert his rights before a baby is born in Utah as it is that many agencies in Utah that deal with infants born to unwed mothers are more than willing to ignore the rights of fathers and to proceed with placing a child with adoptive parents without seeking consent of the father. There was a recent case in which a birth father eventually regained custody of his child because of this breach. Still, it pays for a father to be proactive in this situation.