Posted by:
claire
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Date: May 17, 2016 01:56PM
I am a little peeved at this.
My daughter's high school chamber choir goes on a wonderful, week-long tour every year.
Last year they went to San Francisco.
This year they're going to...Salta Laika Citeeeee.
They will be spending some time with the MoTab and will be on the BYU campus at least one day. (The momos in the group are ecstatic.)
Here's my irritation: The momo pianist sat everyone down and told them all about the BYU "standards", specifically talking to the kids (read: girls) about the dress code. They have been told that they MUST follow the dress code while they are on campus. She likened it to going to a wedding in jeans and a t-shirt. She talked about respecting others, etc.
I cannot believe that they would impose themselves on these kids like that. My daughter isn't signing any honor code agreement. She's not going to that school. She doesn't care about their modesty nonsense.
I don't know how to articulate my anger at this, but I guess it's because we left that church behind and yet here it still is.
Plus also that "honor code" and the rape thing. I feel like respecting their stupid code is kind of like giving tacit approval of it. Which I don't. And my daughter and I both think it's crap because of the rape thing going on. Grrrrrr.