Posted by:
dogzilla
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Date: May 23, 2016 10:52AM
1. I don't think it's any of your business and you have no place inserting your opinions into their family decisions whatsoever. IF you are asked for your opinion, give it. But only if they ask you what you think they should do. (This will never happen.)
2. I would have to know what, exactly, is the nature of these health problems? Now, obviously, it's none of my business and I don't want you to tell us here, but it's between your SIL and her doctor to determine if she can physically and mentally/emotionally handle another/more pregnancies.
3. I think your brother is a despicable piece of shit for waning children more than he wants his wife to be safe and healthy and able to care for whatever they've got already. Remember Andrea Yates? That poor woman who killed all four of her children because of PPD? Long after their doctor advised them to stop having children, Papa Yates insisted they go right on ahead and have another one. IMO, he is responsible for the deaths of his children because he did not value his wife and her mental health enough to prevent having more kids.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrea_YatesMakes me sick to my stomach to hear about men demanding such nonsense.