Posted by:
Forgetting Abigail
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Date: June 02, 2016 12:06PM
Just thought of this incident that happened as one of my last callings about 15 years ago. I was YW counselor at the time. One of the young women, daughter of a member of the bishopric, came to youth night dressed like a Hee Haw girl. If you don’t know what that look is allow me to paint a picture. She had her hair in two long ponytails on the sides of her head, tied with long ribbons. Her top was gingham check and tied at the waist; no belly button showing, but a tiny hint of skin. She was wearing tight above the knee shorts, not Daisy Dukes, but not garment-worthy, and cute little skimmer shoes. She had always been very conservative, but stylish in her attire and at first I raised an eyebrow. But immediately my thought was, “Look who has chosen to express herself” and did one of those inward nervous smiles when I know what was about to transpire. Didn’t take long for the YW President, also bishop’s wife, always dressed in her long skirts and tops buttoned at the throat, to come to me and say, “I think so and so’s outfit is inappropriate and I’m going to let her know”. I just kind of rolled my eyes. The YW Pres approached the girl and told her how she felt and the girl went home, which was a 25-minute drive. (Yes, people actually drive that far to church in non-Utah areas) Needless to say, she didn’t come back with a different outfit. I felt bad for the girl. Soon afterwards I went to church on-again off-again until I left for good within the year.
I have to wonder how that Hee-Haw girl is expressing herself these days…..I hope she has multiple tattoos and wears Daisy Dukes or whatever the hell she wants.