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laurad
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Date: June 06, 2016 05:37PM
The person in question was all buddy-buddy with a small circle of us when we first met her only to find out she was buttering us up to get us to speak openly about another person. Once that person was gone, she dropped us like a hot rock, making all of us feel like we had been used. She was slick, charming, smooth, our best friend, and she loved to throw in a compliment at just the right time. The anger I felt over this situation opened my eyes. Someone had posted this link on Twitter at the same time this was going on -- talk about timing.
http://lundybancroft.blogspot.com/2012/02/rethinking-charm.html?m=1After that experience, and reading the link, I thought back on my life and found a pattern of charming people who turned out to be either narcissists or sociopaths.