Posted by:
se7enthdagger
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Date: June 16, 2016 02:26AM
Hi everyone, starting to get the impression that my younger brother and best friend (not counting my beautiful wife) seems to have finally drunk the cool-aid and not denounced the church as I did at his age. My mother announced to me on her annual birthday phone call that he has put his papers in for a mission. I was and still am baffled by his decision (if its even his *rolls eyes*).
My brother and I have been very close since I left home 10 years ago, and we would talk pretty much every day, were both heavily into video gaming so we kept in touch through our mutual love of staring a pixels and he and I are very similar in our skeptical way of looking at the world.
I had thought I'd gotten through to him a little with my rant at our grandfathers funeral (you know the usual 'the church is full of shit' line and all the controversy that follows), but now im starting to think Iv made a huge mistake and pushed him away... my wife has always told me that even though im out doesnt mean thats what anyone else in my family wants, even if its what I think they need and that I should just let it be.
I was so sure that my brother would follow me out of the church that I didnt stop for one second to think that I might be pushing him back in :( I really dont want him to literally waste 2 years of his life based on some comments I may have made.
Any advise?