While it's not my business to judge, I personally find this marriage appalling... He's 61 and she's 19...I thought 20 years was a large yet manageable age gap, and here they are 41 years apart. With a baby on the way. They're like 2 generations away from each other. He could be her grandfather. When she's 40, he'll be 80. The fact that he has two wives doesn't even compare to the creepy, excessive age gap going on. I wonder how the new wife feels about having to share the "love of her life" with the original wife too.