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Posted by: sonofperdition ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 07:08PM

WHAT MOVIES DO YOU THINK ARE MUST WATCH EXMO CLASSICS?!

Does anyone else have to explain why they have never seen certain movies?

I have to explain to people all the time that I couldn't watch certain ratings growing up. It's cool now because all these movies I've never seen are new to me.

Donnie Darko was brought up by Johnny Boy. If you watch it you will catch and notice many similarities between Lying Joe and a character in the movie Named Jim Cunningham, played by Patrick Swayze.

I just recently read a book called the Dangers of Cult Psychology. The book states that former members of cults are highly likely to manipulated in their post-cult life, even to the point of joining another cult without even realizing it.

The Character of Jim Cunningham from Donny Darko is a good example of why to question everything(cult of personality). Don't forget to question everything. This board does a great job of recognizing MLM's and other religions. Remember their are other types of cults as well ranging from political, self help/psychology, Diet and physical health and cults of personality.

The first Matrix movie is sick! One time a TBM asked me why I left the church. I responded, "Do you want the red pill or the blue pill."

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Posted by: helamonster ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 07:14PM

Pleasantville

The Truman Show

Dogma

Orgazmo

I'm sure there are many more, those are just off the top of my head.

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Posted by: randyj ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:38PM


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Posted by: isthechurchtrue ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 07:21PM

V For Vendetta.

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 07:31PM

Missionary

Brazil

Fahrenheit 451

1984

The Village

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Posted by: RPackham ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 07:50PM

"A Price Above Rubies" with Renee Zellweger, about her escape from a Hassidic cult.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:03PM

"The Wreck of The Reckoning"

1975, Warner Barfers, with a no name cast. It's about an attempt by a troupe of Muslin Sheets to make parachutes so that they can escape from the top of the world, where a jealous ghawd had imprisoned them.

The first attempts end in screaming all the way down, 6,000 feet, failure. Some of the elders counsel the impetuous youth to give up and accept their fate, but the bleeder of the youth, a post-menopausal teen, hectors the other youth to not give up.

It's very dialogue driven, with long passages as the leader of the elders, a young crone named Mary K. Cozmetiks, and the bleeder of the youth, Samsonia Vamos Chica, argue their respective points of the U.

As the movie ends, all the youth jump, successfully, and those who stay behind are seen arguing over what the youth left behind.

Rotten Tomatoes refused to review it.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:13PM

"Stargate"

Good example of how "gods" can be shown not to be such :)

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Posted by: madalice ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:17PM

Eating Raoul

The reason for this one is because it's a great flick that shows you how things are NOT as they seem.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:19PM

Heck, my first marriage did that!

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Posted by: pathfinder ( )
Date: July 25, 2016 08:48PM

"Missionary

Brazil

Fahrenheit 451

1984

The Village"

I just watched "Missionary" last night.

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Posted by: fathered_by_parents ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:01AM

Rambo
Gladiator
The Road Warrior
Kumare
Conan (the Barbarian as well as O'Brien)
DMT: the spirit molecule
Southpark (the mormon episode)
Alien
Eyes Wide Shut
Dangerous mind's
Saving private ryan
Showgirls (jk...lol)

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Posted by: magic823 ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:15AM

I was going to say Orgazmo and Dogma, but someone beat me to it.

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Posted by: orthus ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:20AM

Frailty
The Village
The Wizard of Oz

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Posted by: abby ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:27AM

Saved! (2004 movie)

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Posted by: darkshadow ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 03:23AM

The giver.

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Posted by: darkshadow ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 03:23AM


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Posted by: fatheredbyparents ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 04:09PM

I just watched The Giver two nights ago.

That's a great film!

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Posted by: praydude ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 05:09AM

I've met one exmo who said "The Village" was the movie that woke her up.

I also agree with "The Matrix" as it had a huge impact on me on some instinctual level. I felt like I could not breathe after I watched it and I couldn't explain why. I was still TBM when I saw it. I had to run to force me to breathe. I ran in the night for several blocks not really understanding what was digging at me.

I also love "Pleasantville" because of the message that following one's hart is a great thing. This is also the movie that woke my kids up out of the cult.

Finally I would suggest "Logan's Run". This movie was banned by my ward when it came out. They cited nudity as the reason to not see it. This movie has so many themes dealing with cult life and it also has one of my favorite quotes: "Don't think - it only slows you down".



Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 07/26/2016 05:10AM by praydude.

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Posted by: NormaRae ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 11:06AM

I was working in Provo when "The Village" came out. All the TBMs I worked with loved it. They thought it represented the village as non-Mormons who didn't know what life was all about and the outside of the village as Mormonism that has all the light and all the answers.

When I heard that all I could do was stare with my mouth dropped. I also, thought it was one of the best metaphors of my own life that I've seen. I total related to being in a closed-off unrealistic world and then finally seeing the light. It just showed that we see what we want to see.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 01:18PM

praydude Wrote:
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> Finally I would suggest "Logan's Run". This movie
> was banned by my ward when it came out. They
> cited nudity as the reason to not see it.

A young Jenny Agutter topless.
Now *that* will wake up any male from the mormon fog :)

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Posted by: until then ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 06:56AM

Bagdad Cafe
The Piano
The Spitfire Grill
Mildred Pierce
Sneakers
Monty Python and the Holy Grail
A Fish Called Wanda
The Event Horizon
G.I. Jane
Sunshine Cleaning
And the Band Played On
If These Walls Could Talk
The Godfather (all of them)
Aliens (all of them except Prometheus)
Silence of the Lambs, Hannibal, The Red Dragon

(not in any particular order)

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Posted by: pascalwager ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 09:10AM

"The Invention of Lying" is excellent

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Posted by: Dafuq ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 09:51AM

Not Without My Daughter

Touching the Void

The Big Short


Frozen...

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:17PM

How about some Sean Connery movies ....

The Name of the Rose , and also Zardoz .

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 12:17PM


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Posted by: snowball ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 01:47PM

I agree with some that have already been mentioned, "The Truman Show" was a good reflection finding out that your whole life has been an illusion created by others. I watched Orgazmo with fellow exmos, and that was a fun laugh fest--our irreverence doubtless offended "the spirit" (tm).

Two others I would add along the line of the Truman Show that get at this idea of the tension between the life others have laid out for you, and the life you would like to lead are: "The Good Shepherd" and "Revolutionary Road."

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Posted by: jaded ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 04:13PM

The Shawshank Redemption.

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 05:01PM

The Hungers Games trilogy, both the books and movies (although I haven't watched the last two movies just yet.)

Last Supper

Wayward Pines (a tv program, but really should be read and watched by exmos)

Mad Max Fury Road

The Life of Brian

The Meaning of Life

One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

Quest for Fire

They Live

The Rapture

Rosemary's Baby

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Posted by: Osh9jonn ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 05:08PM

Office Space

Schindler's List

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Posted by: ziller ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 06:37PM

~ but ~

¿ who was Napoleon Dynamite ?

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Posted by: Dennis Moore ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 08:43PM

And The Band Played On is so good. Another one is My Own Country with Naveen Andrews.

Milk, Cuckoo's Nest, Truman Show, City of Angels, Total Recall (the original).

-Dennis

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Posted by: Aquarius123 ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 08:51PM

The Giver

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Posted by: contrarymary ( )
Date: July 26, 2016 08:55PM

Inherit The Wind with Spencer Tracy. Excellent.

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