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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 08, 2016 09:57PM

"Into the life of Elder [Name Withheld],
By: Elder [Name Withheld]

I am to that point of my mission that all my clothes are
failing me. I threw a pair of slacks away today and every-time I use
my running shoes, bits and pieces of the shoe fall off. I started
using an old pair of dress shoes as service shoes. (I will be glade
when I get home and get some new shoes;) but don't weary about it, I
will be fine.
We have been Tracting quite a bit...... well, we have to bike
45 minutes to get in to the area, so we don't really want to bike all
the way back to our apartment, so we spend most of our time Tracting
around our appointments and traveling.
On Friday we helped a non-member hang somethings up on her
walls and move some spider invested sections of a sectional. The three
other elders did not want to touch the furniture. They wanted to us
some rope and carry it that way. When I say saw what they were doing,
I laughed. It was definitely not going to work. I came to the couch
and grabbed it and carried it by my self to the curb. Then I came back
for and saw they were trying to do the same thing again, so I grabbed
that piece and started carrying it up. This time half way through it
my companion helped me. Then we came back and both carried the final
piece together. After we were done , we talked her and set up a time
for the next day to talk to her. We had a member there to be with us
in her house because she was a single woman that bore testimony about
what we were saying. The next day we went back and taught the
restoration and she said I can believe that's true. She told us that
she did not like that there was so many interpretations of the bible.
We invited her to be baptized and she said "yes." Although I got a few
spider bits it turned out great!
Sunday we had a lesson with the less active part member family. We
told the oldest son that turns sixteen tomorrow that he could get the
priesthood and baptize his brother. The family really like that and so
did [Name Withheld] (the non- member). He told us when is the soonest that
he could be baptized. We told him that we had to teach him the lessons
and then he would be able to get baptized. It was a great lesson!
The mission is great! During the course of life everyone is put in
situations that we don't expect or anticipate, but there there to help
us grow and learn. Especial as a missionary you are put in very
interesting of dilemmas. Some maybe bashes, others maybe carrying
spider infested sectionals out to a curb. We can take thing and learn
from everything that may come our way. We can't predict the things
that will happen tomorrow. If we did, we would do things a lot
differently. If I knew that I was going to get bash on, I would not of
Tracted the neighborhood I did. I wouldn't of learned or grow. What I
am really trying to say is that we can learn from everything that is
placed before us! So go forward with faith and diligence!
Have a great last week of summer vacation!

Sincerely,
Into the life of
Elder [Name Withheld]"

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Posted by: madalice ( )
Date: August 08, 2016 10:18PM

Mom and dad need to buy that kid a new pair of shoes and some pants. That's just basic stuff.

Even though I didn't really like it when my stepson was on a mission, I always made sure he had shoes, socks, and needed clothing. Being a missionary is really hard on that stuff.

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Posted by: rubi123 ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:08AM

Yes, his parents ought to be appalled and embarrassed that they let him go out trying to convert the world without proper attire.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:12AM

They are lucky to keep him in the field. I'm almost certain he is getting some sort of assistance. His parents have more kids than their income would be able to support and send twin boys on missions at the same time.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:12AM

Ironically, my parents could have sent me money but told me not to expect any and if I asked none would come.

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Posted by: rubi123 ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:33AM

That's irresponsible. But hey, that's the Mormon way. Let everyone else pay your way.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:54AM

rubi123 Wrote:
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> Let everyone else pay your way.

I got sober on Mormonism at age 20 and let my parents pay my way. They seemed more than willing, actually overwhelmingly eager to pay.

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Posted by: moira ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 02:07PM

The only thing that I buy for my missionary nieces and nephews are a pair of high quality shoes. They always come back and tell me that those shoes outlast their missions.

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Posted by: Britboy ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 05:38AM

When I was on my mission both my companion and I bought clothes , suits etc from the charity shop as we both were British converts and as such had no family to pay for our clothes! Things were always tough as we were constantly short of money . One day all we had left was some bread and onions, so we had onion sandwiches! Happy days eh?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 11:05AM

In some of my areas the dollar to peso fluctuation at time of conversion didn't leave much money for food let alone buying clothing.

But in my pisos (apartments) there were always things others had left behind. I never had a problem finding clothing. Shoes were the only clothing I had to buy. I once wore a pair until they started to cut my feet up.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 12:01PM

"The next day we went back and taught the
restoration and she said I can believe that's true...
We invited her to be baptized and she said "yes.""

Um...what?
Is this girl English, and her name is Danny? :)

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 01:43PM

Funny!

But she didn't say she did believe.

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Posted by: madalice ( )
Date: August 09, 2016 01:59PM

She said that she didn't like so many interpretations of the Bible.

Someone needs to tell her about the BoA, and the 7 versions of the first vision. That should take her mind off of the one more interpretation that the mormons have of the Bible.

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