Posted by:
Crazy_stev3
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Date: August 22, 2016 05:30AM
Looking for advice here: I'm an exmo atheist and my girlfriend and I have been together for about six months. for the most part, things are going really well. she's sweet, loving and has a great sense of humor. There are however, a few things that concern me. My girlfriend is Mormon, but she drinks alcohol and coffee regularly, we have sex, and she hasn't attended church in years. She does have a deeply seeded belief and although she knows about the historical/ethical/logical issues of the church (and religion in general) she says that what is important is the "base beliefs" and that I focus too much on the issues of the Mormon Church. From what she's said to me, she really wants to raise her kids in the Mormon Church, and is worried that I will "force them into my (dis)belief before they have a chance" (slow clap for irony). I've made it very clear that if she wants to take our children to church, etc. she'll have to go alone. It's clear that my lack of belief really bothers her, even though she says that she loves me for who I am. I really like this girl and I can see us potentially having a future, but will these issues be too much? Personally it would be best for me to leave Mormonism behind completely and not to have to think about it ever again, something that's not possible with her. I do think that she's worth it though. Can this work? Should I try?
Thanks