Posted by:
Secular Priest
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Date: September 04, 2016 10:53PM
Quick update.
Here is where temple marriage falls apart. Due to ALS my wife and I never got to the temple to be sealed. So I don't get to know her temple name. I guess I won't be able to call her to come forth from the grave. Now if I get sealed to her in the temple I still do not get to know her name. Only in live sealings does the husband get to know the wife's name.
It bothered me when her daughter (my step daughter) placed the veil over her face. I have not been able to feel why I had such a negative emotion. Maybe it was became she suddenly a no buddy. Any other males have a negative reaction to that part of the funeral?
Her kids are TBM. And I really do not think that Mormons know how to grieve properly. After grace side part, Bishop and counsellors screw off for lunch somewhere. No time with grieving families. Of wait this is a joyous time. They are on the other side with friends and family members.I just do not have enough faith.
So I guess we are not married anymore!!! A HP in my ward lost his wife a week after mine. He was sealed to her. His TBM family seemed okay and happy. I guess I am wondering why I am so upset.
My son says "dad, grieving is hard work." I have more questions than the Church has answers. The HP says he has the answers he needs.