Posted by:
runawayslave
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Date: September 08, 2016 04:30PM
Aghhh I just need some support on this one.
Today I found out from one of the mothers of the YW I served that the bishop is going around to each of the YW's homes to tell them about me leaving the church. I asked him for privacy, specifically with the YW.
Not only is he going around to each of their homes to tell them (and their parents, and subsequently every person they can think of to tell), but he told the bishop of the neighboring ward, to tell their YW presidency, since I was the YW president over some of those girls for a period of time. So now word is spreading like wildfire through that ward.
So now I have people from 2 wards texting me, showing up at my door with tearful eyes, requests to "go for a walk and talk," thanking me for not telling their daughters my apostate thoughts, random Facebook and Instagram likes on old church-related pictures, sharing articles on FB about why Joseph Smith really was a prophet, etc.
I feel like this is an almost criminal violation of my privacy. Like I have zero rights. This is between me and God. I don't go around telling people the covenants they made in the temple. If they don't want people to know, I think that should be respected. I feel like it's as if you got AIDS, and your doctor went around proactively telling everyone you know because it "affects them." That's no excuse to violate a person's privacy. I'm sure they feel they are doing a great job being proactive and "getting ahead of this thing." They are violating my privacy AND devaluing the role of parents. If the girls find out, let them talk to their parents about it! I just feel like this is extremely unethical and to put it bluntly, I am pissed! Haha.
Also, this bishopric is in their 30's with young families. It makes me angry that the church is taking away precious time with their children for this crap. Errrrrr I see why people get angry!
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 09/08/2016 04:32PM by runawayslave.