Posted by:
xe
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Date: September 11, 2016 06:06PM
I really don't get it.
Every time I bring up sincere questions about the Church that are tearing me apart, I'm dismissed as being prideful, selfish, and unfeeling (?) even though that isn't even my intention. The latest conversation went something like this:
ME: "I'm a spiritual person, but I don't believe in the institution. It doesn't make me happy and I think it's bogged down by bureaucracy to the point where spirituality has been sucked out of the meetings."
PERSON: "Well, that's because you aren't praying. You're too lazy and prideful to turn to the Lord for help and you're so busy wrapped up in your own life and you're selfish and you basically suck. Simple as that."
The worst part of this dialogue was that when I said that my spiritual path was elsewhere, this person said that the Spirit wasn't witnessing to them that what I said was true. And....I really couldn't argue with that, so I just ended up looking like an idiot. I had to let it go...fighting over this nonsense wasn't worth it.
But, I'm so confused. There are problems with the Church that kept me up at night feeling suicidal and when I finally had a moment of enlightenment and realized that the Church as an organization wasn't right for me in terms of spirituality, I was dismissed.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 09/11/2016 06:07PM by xe.