Posted by:
vickie debb
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Date: September 28, 2016 08:46PM
Here's the thing, honeyboots, if you are sincere, it is ME who is sorry. All are welcome here, especially sincere doubters.
I know I didn't want to be hurt by a mormon, and some mormons come here to do just that. I'll take you at your word, and offer my deepest apologies.
I have a couple of suggestions for you - I agree with tackling one area at a time, like your room. Also, if you are being used as "the mom" in looking after your younger siblings, like I was, it can be helpful to act like it. Set a firm bedtime when the have to get ready for bed, then a strict bedtime. It will free up your evening time to feed them and settle them down early. Put a schedule on the fridge.
I'm not saying it's right or okay when you should be building your own future, but if you're stuck with it, might as well organize it so you can have some time to yourself.
You can also ask homework questions about stuff you don't understand - just put "homework question" in the subject line, because there are some real experts on this board. Either they will answer or not, but doesn't cost anything to ask.
There are other tricks for getting through chores more quickly, too. For example, something like a table full of clothes that need to be folded and put away -
Say you have 3 little bothers, so you get 3 candy bars, onr big and two smaller. You all fold clothes, and whichever brother folded the biggest stack gets the big candy bar (or whatever - gets to stay up an extra half hour).
Others will have better ideas for time managememt.
The point is, even moms can work, have kids, and still get an education. You are very young for this role, but your immediate goal is FREE TIME TO STUDY. Get the chores knocked out and the kids to bed. If your parents made you the boss, then BE THE BOSS.
Even your brothers will thank you. Again, I'm sorry, too, and sorry you are so crushed for time.