Posted by:
Nightingale
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Date: November 28, 2016 03:26PM
That is different, and lovely, advice. I am guilty of being obsessed with working too much and playing too little. Years fly by and I often fail to keep in touch with even great friends (who are still there for me anyway, hence the 'great'). Many people when younger don't look ahead to the slowing down time of life, not only financially but also in terms of keepng up with friends and family ahead of work or other activities. My clients will step over my rotting corpse and carry on without a blip, I have figured out, while family/friends may actually care a little when I shuffle off. Speaking of 'reverse', I'm switching to snuggling now with good people that I care about, rather than working so much. I somewhat care that people might notice I'm gone but maybe they won't if they can only recall me from the dim and distant past because I didn't stay in touch. I've made a concerted effort to be part of the lives of my sibs' kids (and it was an effort; I wasn't a natural born good auntie), not for what I would get out of it but because at least I knew that time goes by quickly and I didn't want to miss their cute years. 'Investing' in relationships is a good way of looking at it, for mutual, not selfish, benefit.
Exercising as soon as possible for as long as you can is also great advice. Even simple walking can keep you younger and more limber.
I was just reading the other day that learning a new language, mentioned above as a great retirement activity, keeps your brain healthy and active and can fend off memory loss. You can meet people in classes too (or at least, so I read in magazine articles!). Same comment with being musical, which Eric mentioned. It exercises your brain too and obviously increases your social contacts, also a fine way to stay young.
It's too bad they don't dispense with some of the non-essential, non-helpful classes they subject us to in mandatory schooling and instead feed us something more helpful, such as financial and retirement planning. True enough in school as teens we can't visualize growing old or the life changes that dictates. But plenty of people needed to start saving earlier and/or differently. We can make crucial decisions without thinking through the retirement thing. I would be in line for a much better pension if I had stayed working in a hospital, for instance. Not sure if that would have kept me in a job I no longer enjoyed but at least I would have thought about it.
It's so too bad about medical costs eating up personal resources. I wish that didn't happen to people. (Here in Canada, it's not likely that a person has to bear costs for basic and accepted medical expenses but sometimes cost of medications, if not covered, can be a huge burden for older folks).
Also when young we don't think about failing health. That can hit you upside the head without warning and completely change your life.
Maybe there should be a map for school kids that starts them thinking about planning out their lives, for the basics, and planting the concept early that we can control some of what happens to us.
One of the saddest things to me is seeing older folks lining up in the rain waiting for the food bank to open to supplement their meagre pensions, after working hard all their lives.
I wish we could change that, prevent it. We can start by ensuring that as far as we are able we look after our own retirement needs. Not that we need a fortune (tho t'would be nice) but a decent level of income is definitely desirable. I love the idea of travelling without encumbrance (like having to get back to a job) but that certainly eats up the funds.
Fortunately, I have a ways to go. I need more years of hard work and maybe a bit of fairy dust to see me through. Especially as the females in my family are generally long-lived. And despite my earlier leanings, I have realized I don't actually want to work til I drop. I'd rather be in the Himalayas, at Machu Picchu or somewhere equally exotic.
I wish for the good folks here a healthy and happy retirement. The humour and positive outlook and generosity of spirit are all good signs.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 11/28/2016 03:39PM by Nightingale.