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BYU Boner
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Date: November 23, 2016 10:51PM
My heart goes out to you again, Bro! I know hard hard Tom's death for you was. I'm hoping that your dog is just having some aging issues.
My parents have been dead a long time, and despite family conflicts and alcoholism, I miss them very much. Holidays can be especially hard. It's hard for me to realize that my parents' generation is gone, and my time is closing in (hopefully not too soon!). The only way to proceed, for me, is to be fully present during the holidays. I do lots of cleaning, cooking, and writing.
A couple of thoughts about your dog--
I waited too long to put my sixteen-year-old dog to sleep, it wasn't intentional, I had good intentions, but she suffered, needlessly. My second dog was hurting pretty bad when I had to take her in. I rubbed her ears, kissed her snout, and told her I loved her. She relaxed and was at peace for our last few minutes together. It still was hard. But, she did not suffer.
If the time has come, you'll know it's the right time. But, I'm hoping, you'll have more time together.
Your Dad sounds like a good Dad and I know you love and care for him very much. He'll appreciate your support.
When the time is right, you may want to consider another cat. There will not be another Tom, but there are so many cats and dogs that need homes, you'll save a life.
I hope this helps. You're very highly thought of by us, your friends here. If it helps, please post. I don't have answers, but I do have love and compassion I can share.
Very best wishes, friend! The Boner.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/23/2016 10:52PM by BYU Boner.