Posted by:
Afraid of Mormons
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Date: November 25, 2016 03:37AM
We need to understand that popularity is another Mormon lie, used to keep the members firmly in the flock.
"Every member a missionary."
"Bring your friends and neighbors"
"Spread the Word, hand out BOM's"
"Let your light shine!"
A Mormon is fussed-over and revered, if he/she brings in new recruits. The cult is geared for extroverts, even show-offs. I can't think of anyone as obnoxious and intrusive as a Mormon missionary.
News Flash! You don't have to have tons of friends, in order to be happy! My Mormon friends shunned me when I resigned, and I resigned quietly and peacefully. I cried for months. Soon, I realized that it was a relief to have them out of my life. They were critical, controlling unhappy, and very, very demanding of my time. Their lies, racism, sexism, elitism, fear and negativity towards life used to depress me. The phone would ring, and I would cringe! If those were friends, then I'm happier being friendless.
You don't have to be married and/or joined at the hip to someone to be happy. Tell that to a Mormon who believes you have to be sealed in the temple. Some of the happiest people I know are single, and some of the most miserable are married.
A university (I think it was Harvard) did a study, Nation-wide, on happiness and marital status. The results were #1 happiest were single women, #2 married men, #3 single men, #4 married women.
Another study I read about in the newspaper, showed that the average man has 2-3 real friends, that they feel close to. For women it was 3-4 friends.
I have been both popular and solitary, and there are benefits of both. I have sacrificed many relationships, in order to avoid abuse, and to regain my human rights and free will choice.