Posted by:
Amyjo
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Date: December 11, 2016 07:52AM
I felt that way a little the last time I went back soon before I made up my mind to resign and was finally done with the whole lot of them.
After my parents deaths two months apart, and needing to leave where my children and I were currently attending at the time (the former RLDS, now Community of Christ,) we went back out of what best can be described as "nostalgia," for the life I once had when things seemed more secure, warm, and fuzzy than they were then.
Only I was so mistaken. Going back only reinforced why I'd left in the first place. By then I'd already read several of the earlier books on church history, so things started to fall into place and I was finally seeing it for the first time as a cult, in place of a church.
I attended the investigators classes instead of the regular Gospel Doctrine, for a change, since I'd been away for some years. When I had questions for those "teachers" and missionaries arranging the discussions, I was met with blank, glazed over stares. "All is not well in Zion," was echoing through my inner chambers. :)
It finally had sunk in I was inside a cult. Went a few more times after that. My last Sunday @ church, the last meeting I went to the RS president asked the women in the RS class that day did any of us ever entertain any doubts about the truth of the church, because she certainly had? For the longest pause up to a minute or longer, no one dared sigh or whisper an audible response to her question, and the room was filled with dread and antipathy.
Finally she broke the dreaded silence by saying, "Well, neither do I," and proceeded with her lesson.
Even I, who knew I had doubts and misgivings, couldn't bring myself to breaking that oppressive silence for fear of being outed as a dissident. So I too kept quiet. I felt ashamed, but as ashamed for everyone else in that room who probably felt a lot like me and that RS president teaching the lesson that day. That was the nail in the coffin for me at that point. So, after I left and was driving away, knew it would be the last time. I haven't been back since - no regrets. My chiefest regret was I didn't stay away the first time.