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summer
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Date: March 04, 2017 08:03PM
It was an awful time. I remember as a child learning about the war, and turning the globe in my brother's room to the other side of the world. What the heck were we doing over there, in such a tiny insignificant country? How did our involvement even remotely contribute to our nation's defense?
I can't even tell you what it was like to watch the evening news during those years. Walter Cronkite of CBS was the "it" reporter, and his evening newscast was a mandatory event. We would all gather around the TV set. Every day, without fail, the death toll from Viet Nam was announced -- 4 today. 6. 3. 5. EVERY.FREAKING.DAY, healthy young Americans, mostly young men, were dying. And for what?
Young men of draft age had to make horrible, life-altering decisions. My brother said, whatever anyone decided, they all understood. My brother went Army ROTC, and it worked for him. He was an MIT trained engineer, and had good, solid computer programming skills (for the time.) He spent a good part of his hitch in Hawaii. Later, after my dad died, he got a compassionate transfer home. He never went to Vietnam. He was in the reserves by the time he headed back to MIT for grad school. Later, he deliberately destroyed the ceremonial sword that he was given at his ROTC commencement. He hated the Army, hated our country's involvement in Vietnam. And yet he served anyway. He said, "when your country calls you, you serve." I am beyond grateful that he never needed to go. Given my father's death, it would have irrevocably destroyed my family, and destroyed my chances in life, had he died. I am where I am today because of my dear brother.
One of his MIT engineer friends had a low draft number. He emigrated to Australia, where he built his life. It's been a good one. The Australian government was glad to get such an accomplished individual. Our loss, Australia's gain. He and my brother remain close to this day. They, along with their wives, often travel together.
Many years later, I visited the Vietnam veterans memorial in Washington D.C. It is a deeply moving memorial. So many lives, and for what?
I once made the acquaintance of a young Naval Academy midshipman. His father was grievously wounded in Vietnam. The young man was surprisingly understanding of my family's feelings about the war. He knew with a certainty that the war was deeply divisive.
My one regret is that a lot of people took out their feelings about the war on our country's soldiers. It was never the soldier's fault. They did what our country asked them to do.
Our country's involvement in Vietnam cost the military the trust of the country. It was the impetus for today's all-volunteer force.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/04/2017 08:05PM by summer.