Posted by:
seamaiden
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Date: March 18, 2017 06:22AM
I am not saying that you shouldn't be angry at what they have done, and this is also coming from the point of view of a convert not someone born into the church, but what helped me with this is owning up to my own flaws.
I had to own the parts of myself that allowed them to suck me in, make peace with it and at the same time strengthen myself. They can't get to me now, not because they have changed for the better, they still act the same shitty way. I am now stronger and know where I need to put my strength when they come back.
This poem helped me a lot
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1UEnPp9l8sEdited 3 time(s). Last edit at 03/18/2017 06:33AM by seamaiden.