Posted by:
puppet
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Date: March 26, 2017 03:26PM
So, in essence, I am a tool. I cannot often be assertive with people. Either I run away or I lie instead of just saying no. Also, I'm addicted to accomplishment. It's been good for my resume but not so much for my mental health. I need external validation and I'm terrified of failure or disapproval. Ironically, this increases my odds of failure in certain areas especially interpersonally.
It's frustrating because I know this and have known for years but I'm unable do stop it. I see so many overachieving mormons who are like me. It obviously epidemic in mormonism.
Recovered perfectionists and poseurs, how did you do it! It's so frustrating.
Thanks!