Posted by:
Breeze
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Date: May 01, 2017 06:36PM
I probably never really believed the Mormon doctrines. The BOM was poorly written, tedious, gory, and a nasty turn-off. The D & C was even worse. I believe that most humans have an innate sense of love and justice and--well--humanity. Mormonism went against all of that. What little girl would believe the polygamy ever was and ever would be "God's new and everlasting covenant"?
My parents could have gotten me out sooner--if they had been HONEST with me! Neither one of them wore their temple garments, or ever attended the temple. They pushed me into a temple marriage, and when they couldn't go, they hustled during the few weeks of my engagement, bought garments. My dad paid out several thousands of dollars in tithing. If they had just said to me, "We don't really believe in all of Mormonism, and we won't be able to go to your temple wedding." Then, I would have said, "If you don't believe, then, why should I? To be honest, I'm still in love with my atheist childhood/high school sweetheart, and I choose to marry him."
It's hard to forgive my parents for pushing me into a temple marriage to an abusive monster, that we barely knew.
IF ONLY my parents had told me the truth! It was more important for them to keep up appearances, and go along with the cult lies, than to insure their daughter's happiness. We all dearly loved my atheist boyfriend.
There are posters here who are out of the cult, yet still leave their children under the bus, in the firm grip of the cult, and cult family members. These parents, and my own parents, expect children to fight battles, alone, against an evil, lying, manipulative business--and these are battles that the parents themselves didn't have the courage to fight!
Maybe I made up for my parents' forcing me to attend a church that they knew was a cult. I had my children resign with me, and I promised them that they never had to go Mormon meetings ever again. They cried for joy. With my own children, this got them out of the cult SOONER.