Posted by:
anonuk
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Date: June 01, 2017 05:57AM
Perhaps what he meant to say was he hates 'queens' since they are the worst of the loud n proud lgbt's and the ones who give conservative folks (and even many gays) the heebie jeebies. The 'Queens' (I do not know the name of the lesbian equivalent if there is one and do realise it is a british moniker for a certain type) are the epitome of the stereotype of gays that most straighties have in the back of their mind from press pictures of gay pride events.
If he did have a crush on you before you told him your were a lesbian he is probably taking your revelation in the same way as a 'knock-back' or 'put-down': ie some sort of personal rejection. Either he will get over it, or you will get over the fact that some folks are not going to be a true friend for you and neither will you be a true friend to them.
Blow the stereotypes out the water for all of your fellow students with prejudices or stereotypical beliefs by being your likeable self. Who cares what other people think when you are secure in yourself, which from the sound of your post you obviously are, unlike many attending college with you.
Unfotunately, this behaviour is part of life whether one is lgbtq or not. Some people 'ghost' other people, demonstrating their immaturity in the process.