Posted by:
fred
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Date: June 27, 2017 04:35PM
So a co-worker is relocating to a different state.
A bit of back story...she has consistently, over 5 years, produced 1/4 to 1/2 of what I and two others with the same position produce while making equal money. She has been placed in charge of certain things and fails to tell us of changes. This has repeatedly causes a 'thrown under the bus' scenario for me and the two others. She has made some rude, almost inhumane, comments surrounding the diagnosis of cancer in my FIL. Many other rude comments regarding my wife staying home and people being less than her. I could go on and on and on.
I have distanced myself from her antics which has helped
With in one week of me learning she is leaving, I get an email from her new employer. She put me down as a reference?! No request from her, no previous discussions, nothing. I deleted the email. I have, every other day, received a reminder email to complete the reference. I continue to delete these.
The first request was last week. I've worked along side her several days since then and still nothing.
Am I right in not completing the reference? It is a matter of principle for me. I cannot provide anything positive to say aside from the fact she is leaving. I also worry that if I were candid in the reference she would not get the job and be forced to stay here longer.
Thoughts?