to ask you why you don't attend.

if they cared enough to ask,their heads would explode.

You're in Satan's power. They're afraid of being deceived and losing their place in the Magic Kingdom. What a Mickey Mouse outfit.

My parents listened. They were beyond shocked when my marriage fell apart and they found out my ex is gay. They never thought I'd leave the church as I was their most devout child. They were very supportive. My inactive siblings and nieces and nephews were thrilled. My younger brother, long inactive, told me I had finally give him permission to allow himself to finally not think he had to believe.

I realize now that I'm one of the lucky ones. Even my aunt, whose husband was a SP, and she had always been RS presidents, etc., listened and she thought I should live my life as I felt was right. She was thrilled when I started dating my old boyfriend who is a nonmormon.

Ask and they shall find. Most LDS don't want to find and ARE NOT TRUE seekers,ADVENTURERS or FAMILY oriented (as opposed to LDS oriented) individuals.

"...to ask you why you don't attend."

I'd be glad. The alternative is to be harassed and/or be put in a position to explain "why." I'd rather be left alone.