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Breeze
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Date: July 25, 2017 06:37PM
Being a Mormon, in California, anyway, does mean one is a cult member. It also means that the person's primary loyalty is to the cult, and not to the company he/she works for. In Utah, as well as in California, to many it means "MLM-mentality" and lack of integrity. The only companies I know of that are looking for BYU graduates are MLM companies, and companies looking for trained salesmen.
Praydude has a good point. A BYU graduate is telling the world that he/she is a Mormon, and that opens a huge can of worms. No matter how hard I tried to cast aside my Mormon past, the BYU on my resume was there to haunt me.
As far as education goes--NO--I would not recommend BYU to anyone! Go with a junior college, and then a better university for upper graduate work. Sorry, but you can't compare BYU with Stanford. I've been to both, and like one poster said, BYU was more like high school. Well, my high school classes were better than BYU. I just slid by at the Y, and skied, played tennis, and went on dates. The only classes that taught me anything new were the science classes--and even then, only one day was spent on the subject of evolution. The teacher warned us ahead of time, that Darwinism was going to be taught on a certain day, and that class attendance was not mandatory on that day! Yes!
I'm sure the honors program (if they still have it) at BYU is good. The rest of us ordinary students were stuck with huge classes of 250 students, and an instructor, not a professor. I felt like one of the masses. Someone would ask me my name, and I would reply with my student number, instead, to be ironic, but I was serious. I was just a number. Lots of boys dated me, because I was not overweight, and they thought I had money. The Number One FAQ of dating was, "What does your father do for a living?" My father was a bit of a Mormon celebrity. It was all so shallow, and such a waste of time, except for the skiing!
Going to BYU was the worst mistake of my life. Well, it was my parents' decision, really. Our family heritage was to graduate from BYU, then do grad work at Stanford. Stanford wouldn't accept religion classes, except for one Bible class, and I had to go back and take more undergrad classes, first. It is much harder, these days, for a BYU grad to be accepted to Stanford.
LOL! I absolutely would not recommend going to BYU to find a husband, either! That was disastrous for me! Someone mugged me on campus, and my roommate's fiancee beat me up and attempted to rape me (I was rescued) in Cannon Center. Don't send your daughter there. A wealthy friend of mine sent her daughters to BYU, and they had full-time body guards living with them, in a secure house. Still, they married BYU guys, and it turned out that the guys were just after their money. Ugly divorces ensued, and there were children involved.... Why not just go ahead and send them to Harvard or Stanford, in the first place.
Why not just live at home? My kids went to the U, and lived at our house, had jobs, joined fraternities/sororities, and had fun and sports--plus a first-rate education, and valuable local business networking, besides.