I am a graduate student at Duke, where I went through the worst part of my faith crisis a year or so ago. I have since gone semi-inactive, with my wife still fulfilling her calling even as she becomes ever more a "social" Mormon (and less a fanatic, which fortunately for me she never was).
Sorry, I'm just now responding back. I found out the truth about the lds church in 2007 and resigned within 6 months. I love this area. We visited the area a few times before moving here. I would love to get together with any exmos or have some contacts. Let me know what I can do.